Is it possible to “become” a lesbian? When I was younger I always got butterfly’s for boys and rarely girls, but now I only seem to like girls.

First thing’s first. Sexuality is so fluid. There is such a diverse spectrum of sexualities including male preference, woman preference, pansexuality which includes not seeing gender as a factor, and the list goes on. I am a firm believer in being “born gay”, but it does take longer for some to discover who they are … More Is it possible to “become” a lesbian? When I was younger I always got butterfly’s for boys and rarely girls, but now I only seem to like girls.

Inclusive Restrooms

  The gender binary is a lie. With that being said, dividing things by this “boy” and “girl” system, is only building on this idea, making it difficult for those who do not fit in the two categories. One main problem for those who do not fit into these categories is the fact that bathrooms … More Inclusive Restrooms

Hey. I was wondering if I could have your advice with something. I know this girl, she is my best friend, and idk if I should do something to forward the relationship. She lets me walk with my hand in hers, or on her waist, but idk if she likes me. We go see movies together, but she is my best friend… Please help me.

We do live in a heteronormative society and it is hard to identify someone solely based on the outward appearance (looks and actions). You have her as a friend right now, and from what it seems like, a close on. Approach the situations lightly because you don’t want to lose a friendship over what you … More Hey. I was wondering if I could have your advice with something. I know this girl, she is my best friend, and idk if I should do something to forward the relationship. She lets me walk with my hand in hers, or on her waist, but idk if she likes me. We go see movies together, but she is my best friend… Please help me.