First thing’s first. Sexuality is so fluid. There is such a diverse spectrum of sexualities including male preference, woman preference, pansexuality which includes not seeing gender as a factor, and the list goes on. I am a firm believer in being “born gay”, but it does take longer for some to discover who they are … More Is it possible to “become” a lesbian? When I was younger I always got butterfly’s for boys and rarely girls, but now I only seem to like girls.
The gender binary is a lie. With that being said, dividing things by this “boy” and “girl” system, is only building on this idea, making it difficult for those who do not fit in the two categories. One main problem for those who do not fit into these categories is the fact that bathrooms … More Inclusive Restrooms
I wasn’t like many of my friends now, who knew from childhood that they would grow up to be lesbians. Coming of age in the 1970s, in an era shaped by the feminist movements of the 1960s, I had a lot of intellectual exposure in college to lesbianism as a political statement against the patriarchy. … More “Here’s to Love!”
October 11th is a big day in the LGBTQA community and to many people in the community itself. It is deemed as National Coming out day. No, it is not a day to tell you that you have to come out. National Coming Out Day is a day of support. It is a day to … More National Coming out day
With the current election coming up, I would like to take a second and point out how our community will be affected if Donald Trump takes office. On June 25, 2015, same-sex marriage was legalized throughout the United States. We are aloud to marry the one we love in any state in the … More 2016 Presidential Election
We do live in a heteronormative society and it is hard to identify someone solely based on the outward appearance (looks and actions). You have her as a friend right now, and from what it seems like, a close on. Approach the situations lightly because you don’t want to lose a friendship over what you … More Hey. I was wondering if I could have your advice with something. I know this girl, she is my best friend, and idk if I should do something to forward the relationship. She lets me walk with my hand in hers, or on her waist, but idk if she likes me. We go see movies together, but she is my best friend… Please help me.